The matchmaking initiative Chiburei Barzel (“Iron Bonds”) began as the small dream of one woman with a big heart—and quickly turned into a source of hope for IDF wounded veterans from all fronts and battles. The idea was born from a deep sense of mission: to create a safe and authentic space for romantic connection for soldiers injured both physically and emotionally.
With the help of matchmaker Racheli Huminer, Ossi Even Tzur developed a detailed questionnaire that allows participants to note their types of injuries and coping processes, along with “before and after” photos, to help potential matches see the person behind the story.
“Record-Breaking Demand”
In the first few weeks alone, the site crashed under the weight of incoming traffic: hundreds of women from all over the country sought to join, and nearly 1,000 have already registered—from all ages, backgrounds, and sectors. Dozens of wounded men who feel ready for a serious relationship have applied, and new matches are already forming. “They see the person first. That’s what truly matters,” Ossi told news outlet Arutz 7.
Ongoing Professional Support
The project doesn’t end at the matchmaking stage. Responding to needs that emerged from the field, certified relationship coaches have joined to accompany the couples throughout their journey. Additionally, a professional medical advice channel was launched, offering women insights into the implications of various injuries—empowering them to make informed decisions with empathy and understanding.
“Building Homes—That’s the True Victory”
Early signs of success are already visible. Several couples are in advanced stages of getting to know one another, and the impact goes beyond romantic connections. For many of the wounded, simply having the chance to love and rebuild is a source of hope.
“They wanted to destroy,” Ossi said. “But we will build homes. There is no greater victory than that.”
